View and review the wild child, immersing myself in the work of Lucienne Sivray, also read the book by Dr. Itard lead me yet this question ...
What does he want?
It? Who?
Who is it there?
The subject, the other ... Whoever is there, sometimes ask, or not
My experience in the hospitals, bedside, old, very old times, sick, very sick ... often led me to this question.
What does he want? him ...
How many times have I heard: "We should put it there, send it here, it does not go home" He preferred it that ... "Without
to ask him: What wants, wants. ... Maybe?
As if we knew better than him, that he which is good for him ...
You tell me that it's not easy, that sometimes he, is unable to know, to say what is good for him ...
is possible, sometimes true in extreme cases that we know, psychiatry, gerontology ...
But it may be worth a try ... Or at least thinking about it.
To have this idea, the question "him and he thinks what?" Simply top
perhaps that he, the other is sick, old, are still, even a little!
Just to admit, as he, another, full also ...
Do not denying its existence, because sick, suffering, old, fragile ...
It is the same as for the other, child, spouse, "he" which is not us.
The "it" for which we want the property, the greater good, the better for him
It's not easy, I know, but common sense does not he say that hell is paved good intentions?
Do not substitute "it" to him, the other that we like or not, we care, we are responsible.
Trying to associate with the decisions never simple and often painful to be taken.
is also and above all respect him. Respect their individuality, and ours.
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